Are You Wearing Pathetic Panties in Midlife?

Are you wearing pathetic panties in midlife? blog panty underwear challenge

As a midlife gal, if your panties are pathetic, your underwear situation was likely brewing for quite some time now.

It happens. It’s more common than you think!

It’s started out innocently enough.

You’re busy.

You’re taking care of a lot of people and a lot of things.

You’re responsible about money and shopping.

You’re downright comfortable putting others first.

All of this is going on.

Meanwhile, the years are flying by.

And your panties are deteriorating right before your very eyes!

But you don’t really “see” it.

Well…you might notice it.

You might feel it.

But if you’re like so many other women in the middle, you don’t take care of business and replace them right away.

You justify the situation.

You think that it’s not that bad.

You tell yourself that there are more important things to spend money on.

You don’t really know where to shop anyway.

You basically put up with it.

You carry on.

But then…more deterioration.

More bad lycra.

The occasional blown out crotch.

Stretched out waistbands.

But you soldier on.

And another couple of years fly by.

Get unstuck midlife

If you’re in a midlife funk, you’re probably pretty good at justifying ways to ignore taking care of yourself.

It can be extremely frustrating to waste so much time feeling stuck like this.

One common area that often needs some improvement is self-care and self-love, so it’s really not much of a surprise that something like this can be related.

Midlife gals can be pretty hard on themselves.

Ask yourself this important question.

What would it be like to wake up every day and feel amazing about the way you’re taking care of yourself?

If your underwear situation isn’t great, you’re ignoring an obvious place to focus when it comes to self-care…your underthings.

It’s what you put on first every day.

It’s what’s closest to your skin.

It’s likely that if you’re not making it a priority to take care of yourself by wearing decent underwear, you’re also not making yourself a priority in other areas of your life.

Your mindset needs a tune up.

You may not realize it, but the decisions you make about your panties can make a big impact on your life.

Do you notice any of your thoughts about your underwear?

When you think about it, why wouldn’t you deserve undergarments that do the job they were made to do?

The answer is because of what you THINK you deserve.

The thing is though, this is not written in stone.

What you think you deserve is based what you tell yourself.

When you’re deep into your bad underwear drawer, it’s can be hard to sort out what’s going on in your mind, especially because you have so much of your life totally under control!


What if you knew what to do?

What if you got to the BOTTOM of what was going on?

What if you were ready to take action?

With mindfulness work, you can learn to be more curious about all of it. For example, wouldn’t it be great to know:

  • why you’re wearing the panties you’re wearing
  • how it feels to wear pathetic panties
  • what it takes to make decisions to throw the bad ones out
  • what it’s like to purchase something that’s better
  • and finally, why it’s so important to pay attention to what you’re putting on your beautiful bum? 

Yes, your midlife panty situation is more important than you think. There’s power in your panties!

I think it’s a window to your midlife mindset.

That’s why I created this Midlife Funk Busting Awareness Worksheet. You can plug in any midlife problem you are having (like pathetic panties) and want to change and be guided to some amazing insights to help you make the change! They speak volumes about the way you’re taking care of yourself these days. And when you’re trying to be more intentional about loving your life after 50, it matters and it starts here.

When you do this kind of mindset work, you will start to feel get excited about the changes that are totally possible for you NOW, even at your age, simply by addressing your pathetic panties.

You’ll have a handle on this whole situation and will be clear on what you want now and in the future when it comes to your undergarments.

It’s not too late and it’s gonna be great! Grab your FREE WORKSHEET now!


NOTE: There was a challenge that ran from October 4 – 8, 2021. It’s over now. Stay tuned for updates by downloading the worksheet and getting on my newsletter list!

Updated: September 20, 2022



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