What You’ll Learn from this Episode about Mind Hacks and Uncertainty: Why it’s so common to assume that life is more certain than it is. How thinking that life should be different than it is can create more anxiety. How both the midlife and Covid-19 experience share much unpredictability. Why understanding what your thoughts...
Continue readingEP #166: Are You Worried about Looking your Age? You’re Not Alone!
What You’ll Learn from this Episode about Worrying about Looking your Age: Why it’s so common to be worried about looking your age; you’re not alone. How looking your age is more than wrinkles, turkey neck and your skin. Why it’s important to understand being worried from the perspective of appearance, perception and reinvention....
Continue readingEP #165: The Urge to Compare and Despair in Midlife
What You’ll Learn from this Episode about the Urge to Compare & Despair: Why comparing yourself to others can create unnecessary negative emotion in midlife. The common feelings and experiences created when you engage in “compare and despair”. Why it’s common for people to take a break from social media. Four ways to handle...
Continue readingEP #162: 5 Amazing Midlife Questions to Live your Best Life
What You’ll Learn from this Episode about How to Live your Best Life: Why the questions you ask yourself in midlife out of habit are important. Why asking yourself certain questions will get in your way so that you don’t live your best life. How to ask yourself better, more productive questions. Why it’s...
Continue readingEP #160: When the Pandemic Tries to Ruin your 50th Birthday with Diane Shephard
What You’ll Learn from this Episode about 50th Birthday Plans: How to rebound when your extensive 50th birthday plans get cancelled. How to think through what’s really important about important milestones. How you’re likely learning important life lessons in your 40s that set you up for your next chapter. Why being imperfect at weight...
Continue readingThe Summer that Never Was
Where in the world would you have been this week? Are you thinking this type of thought? About this summer? About this year? Do you think of it as “the summer that never was?” Do you lead conversations like this when someone asks, “How’s it going?” Personally…I would have been in Italy. I think...
Continue readingEP #126: 10 Reasons to be Grateful for Midlife
What You’ll Learn from this Episode: Why it’s important to take a look at how you feel about midlife. How understanding that your thoughts create your feelings can help get perspective about aging. How you can create gratitude on purpose, even about midlife. Why liking your reasons for the way you think about midlife...
Continue readingEP #58: How to Use Words to Change your Life, Interview with Mary Shores
What You’ll Learn from this Episode: How your basement is a metaphor for your unconscious mind. How the words you use show you your unconscious belief system. How midlife can be the perfect time to focus on strengths. How using your personal strengths to do things differently can change everything for you. The real...
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