What You’ll Learn from this Episode about Midlife Lessons Learned from the Finally First Club: What the top lessons are from one year in the Finally First Midlife Membership. Why understanding what putting yourself first means to you is critical. Why learning to manage your thoughts and feelings is necessary for midlife change. Why...
Continue readingEP #96: 6 Confusion Hacks for Important Midlife Decisions
What You’ll Learn from this Episode: Why it’s common to be confused in midlife. Why being confused may actually be serving you. How to get more perspective on the confusing situation at hand. Why it’s important to make a decision instead of indulge in confusion. How to use the “FLOWER POWER CONFUSION HACKS” to...
Continue reading5 Great Questions to Ask in Midlife
What’s going on up there in your midlife brain with all these questions? The answer? So many things related to negative spin! And the problem is, these questions are not all in your brain with your permission. Let’s take the questions you ask yourself on a regular basis. Things like: Why am I struggling...
Continue readingEP #79: Believing What’s Possible in Midlife
What You’ll Learn from this Episode: Why it’s important to understand what you actually have control over. How your personal results are caused by your thoughts. Why it’s important to notice what your’re thinking. Why you can’t create anything on purpose when you don’t think on purpose. How beliefs are just thoughts you think...
Continue readingEP #76: Fear-based Decision Making in Midlife
What You’ll Learn from this Episode: Why it’s important to realize when you’re making a fear-based decision. How to use the thought model to figure out the thought that is creating fear. How to think through what’s going on when you’re confused. Questions to ask yourself when you’re not sure why you’re stuck and...
Continue readingAre you hiding from change?
You’ve been thinking about making a change. So much so that the change itself has become noisy chatter in your mind. It comes and goes, but it’s there. You hear it even though you’re hiding. It’s not constant, but you hear it. You try to ignore it when you notice it. Sometimes you can....
Continue readingHow to navigate college and midlife transitions better
Life transitions can be hard. I find myself frequently surrounded by handsome young men at the brink of making some pretty stressful college and university choices. Unfortunately, it’s not because of my charming personality. It’s simply because of the age and stage of my high school and college-aged sons and all of their friends....
Continue reading12 Signs You Need a Change
Something isn't quite right with you. You've been feeling it for awhile now, but it was hard to put your finger on. Maybe you've been at the same job for a really long time and need a change; perhaps you've had a milestone birthday. Maybe you or someone close to you had a serious...
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