What you’ll learn from this episode about infidelity in midlife relationships:
- How to take steps to move forward after infidelity in midlife relationships.
- How infidelity and cheating can serve as a wake-up call with tangible evidence.
- How being in your 50s and 60s can make it more challenging to reimagine what’s possible with long-term plans and your next chapter.
- How time sensitivity commonly felt in midlife related to coping with infidelity can also feel invigorating.
- Why it’s common to feel shame and stigma around infidelity.
- Why “the phone” is typically the most common way people tend to learn about cheating and infidelity in a midlife relationship.
- Why it’s important to get professional help when you’re trying to move forward post infidelity.
- Why the revelation of infidelity can be the wake-up call that really creates meaningful change.
- Why insight and empathy can sometimes be an additional result of therapy and working through the infidelity.
Welcome to Another Episode of the Women in the Middle Podcast
Today’s episode is all about infidelity in midlife relationships with Dr. Lauren Napolitano.
Surprisingly, one of the hardest parts of working through infidelity can be that you feel alone and without support; that’s because shame and stigma may keep you from telling your loved ones about the infidelity.
My guest today is Dr. Lauren Napolitano, a clinical psychologist in Philadelphia. She has 25 years of experience treating individuals and couples. She specializes in helping couples who are dealing with infidelity, sexual difficulties, and communication issues.
She also works with divorced couples who need support in their co-parenting relationship. When she works with clients on an individual basis, she aims to help them get unstuck and better identify goals for themselves. She is direct, honest and wants to help people to feel better fast.
When Lauren is not working, she can be found walking her dog, watching the Real Housewives, or eating pizza.
Whether you’ve been personally affected by infidelity, I know you’re going to get a lot out of hearing this important interview.
Featured on the Podcast:
Esther Perel Mention: https://www.amazon.com/State-Affairs-Rethinking-Infidelity-anyone/dp/1473673550/
Dan Savage Mention: https://www.amazon.com/Savage-Love-Advice-Relationships-Dating/dp/1632173824/
Connect with Lauren Napolitano
Website: https://www.laurennapolitano.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurennapolitanopsyd/
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